Goodbye Callie

I tell you, sometimes I wonder why life throws so many curve balls all at one time. Yesterday was a really hard day emotionally. I started out with a heavy heart about how work would feel. I didn’t want to get out of bed and I wondered how many days in row I could call in sick without being fired. I did finally get up and get ready to go. For breakfast I had my typical, hot grain cereal with wheatberries, oats and bulgur topped with almond butter and a banana. One the side I had a glass of milk.



Once at work, the emotions really started flying. The Pro and I had a really long talk about Paul’s death and the unfortunate circumstances behind it. Though the club was closed, a few employees rambled in throughout the day to find out any updates about the arrangements for him. Once T got to work, the mood lightenend a bit as she is a laugher and her laugh is infectous. It was a nice change from the somber mood of the early morning.

Around 10:30, The Pro said he would go out to Firebird’s and pick up some lunch. Since I knew that meant it would be late before lunch arrived, I had a stoneyfield farms low fat strawberry yogurt. It really hit the spot and held me over until the lunch came.

this should hold me over

this should hold me over

I ordered the same thing I always order from Firebird’s, a grilled salmon salad. The salad has roasted pecans, tomatoes and jicama and it comes with a cilantro lime vinaigrette. It is so tasty and even without any whole grains, it is really filling. The Pro also “surprised” us with lattes so right after lunch I had most of a grande soy latte from Starbucks. I had a raging headache and that really helped ease it up some.






The afternoon flew by and before I knew it, it was time to go. By the time I left, I had an outrageous headache again and was really ready to be home. When I got home, I made spinach salads and whole wheat mini shells with turkey tomato sauce. I had the sauce in the freezer so this meal went together in less than 15 minutes.

quick dinner

quick dinner

After dinner, we went out to run some errands and came home to some disappointing news. There were signs all over the neighborhood indicating someone had lost a pregnant calico cat with a distinctive stripe down her nose. We knew right away that the missing cat was our Callie. We had adopted her just a week prior and at the time felt sure she was a stray. She did not have a collar and she hung around for months. Once we decided that she was a stray, we started feeding her and she, of course, started to hang around more. She was in our yard constantly and we didn’t want her to be homeless anymore. So, we took her to the vet and brought her in to join our other two precious kitties.

We called the number on the flyer and got a voicemail and left a message letting them know we had her. The whole evening was so sad. I made some popcorn hoping to find some comfort, I know food wasn’t the answer but I was so tired of crying.

comfort food?

comfort food?

Around 9:30, we went to bed only to be woken at 10:30 by the ringing phone. Dear husband answered, it was Callie’s “owner”. Within a few minutes, the doorbell rang. I answered the door because I wanted answers. I wanted to know why she was always so hungry and if they intended to give her an actual home. Sadly, the man was very confrontational and he had two dirty crying children with him. He approached me as if he wanted to fight a couple of times, I threatened to call the police but he wasn’t backing down. He and I clearly have different positions on proper animal care. He was aware that she was pregnant and that she didn’t have a collar. He also admitted that “everyone” in the neighborhood feeds her. They had gone on vacation and when they returned she was missing. In the end, I gave him the cat as he was threatening me and I was very scared, he was only feet from my face and I didn’t know what else to do.

Once Callie left, I was angry and sad. I am so worried about the fate of her and her little babies. I don’t know if I have any rights at all. Though I did tell him if she comes back, I do plan to take her in again. I cried alot and finally fell asleep around 2 am. I didn’t see her this morning, I hope she is OK.

9 Responses

  1. Oh my goodness, I’m terrible saddened that Callie was taken away!! Is there ANY way that you can get her back?? Fight until the end on this one!!

  2. I am calling the SPCA to see if there is anything I can do without getting into law issues. I don’t want to steal someones cat but I really don’t think they are giving the cat a proper home.

  3. I hope that you have a better day today!!

  4. When it rains it pours, huh?

    So sorry. I hope you end up with Callie. She deserves a good home.

  5. i agree, please fight for her – i am so sorry that things have been so rough on you lately.

  6. I am so sorry that the past few days have been so tough—I really hope that things turn around soon, you really deserve something good to happen soon!

    Is there a reason you got a soy latte? I’ve never had one—I’m assuming you like the taste better than nonfat lattes if you chose it. How is the consistency in comparison? Maybe I’ll have to give it a try sometime.

  7. I’m so sorry about everything the last few days. Take it easy on yourself and don’t worry about food…just take care of yourself and your emotions.

  8. Thanks everyone for your well wishes!


    I like soy lattes because they taste good without all the added syrups. I do get regular milk lattes when I am in the mood to have a syrup.

  9. Oh my gosh! I am so sorry, C. As having taken in an abused cat under my wing, I know exactly what that is like. I’m so sorry for all that you have had to go through the last couple of days. We are all praying for you and here if you need foodie shoulders to lean on!! I can’t imagine how rough this has all been. Do take care of yourself, and take the time you need to try to stay as mentally healthy as you can. Dealing with a loss (especially more than one), is one of the most draining experiences. Again, I’m so sorry…and I can’t even bring myself to say “wow, that salmon salad looks mighty tasty”, because that just doesn’t seem appropriate.

    Hope your Wednesday is better!

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